Change is an inevitable part of life, and as we journey through the years, it becomes increasingly apparent. For many of us, this journey includes facing the realities of aging – a process that brings with it both challenges and opportunities. Personally, I’ve found myself grappling with the realization that I can no longer engage in activities that once defined me. Running, once a source of joy and accomplishment, has become a distant memory. The thrill of racing, the adrenaline rush of crossing the finish line – these experiences now feel like relics of the past.

In confronting these changes, I’ve come to understand the importance of acknowledging and grieving for the things we can no longer do. It’s natural to feel a sense of loss when faced with the limitations imposed by aging. For me, letting go of my identity as an athlete, and someone that pushed myself to achieve many goals, was a process fraught with emotions – sadness, frustration, and even anger. But through it all, I’ve learned that acknowledging these feelings is essential to moving forward.

Yet, amidst the loss, there is also strength to be found in adaptation. As I’ve navigated the terrain of aging, I’ve discovered new ways to stay active and healthy. While I may no longer be able to run, or do some activities that once brought me joy, I’ve embraced alternative forms of exercise that allow me to maintain my physical wellbeing.  Walking the neighborhood, hiking in the woods, biking on our many beautiful paths and strength training have become my new companions, guiding me along a path of renewed vitality and resilience.

But perhaps the most profound lesson I’ve learned is the importance of embracing new opportunities. In letting go of the past, I’ve opened myself up to a world of possibility – one filled with untapped potential and uncharted adventures. I have discovered a renewed passion for hiking, gardening, cooking, and participating in events in my community. I've come to realize that age is not a barrier, but a gateway to new experiences.

As I reflect on my journey of embracing change, I’m reminded of the words of C.S. Lewis:

“You are never too old to set another goal or to dream a new dream.” 

Indeed, as we age, we have the opportunity to reinvent ourselves, to explore new passions, and to embrace life with a sense of wonder and curiosity. So let us not fear the passage of time, but rather, let us welcome it as an invitation to grow, evolve, and flourish.

Embracing change is not always easy, especially as we age. But it is through acknowledging our losses, finding strength in adaptation, and embracing new opportunities that we can navigate the journey with grace and resilience. So I challenge you to embrace the beauty of the unknown, and continue to embrace change as the adventure it truly is.  

You get to choose to be flexible, pivot and adapt.  You get to choose to find opportunity in your limitations.  You get to choose to live the truest, most beautiful life you can imagine.  

What path will you choose?